Ohh my gosh im in love?

im in love with this guy...we went out...but someone started crap...and we distrusted each other for about like 3 days...so we broke up....we talked for about 2 weeks....he asked me out again...i said let me think...i was going to answer the next day...but 3 other girls asked him out...and he liked them more and i told him that...so he said no to all 3 girls and i told him i love you...then i found out he JUST got a new gf i thought it wouldnt last...but i read a blog he wrote on myspace saying how much in love he is with her and now they have been going out for about 3-4 months...i even told him word-n-word how i felt about him...and he didnt really care...i was going to answer him the next day yes...but now its too late! How should i handle the rest of this whole situation? let them be? not even be friends if i cant get over him? PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!?!?!?

Ohh my gosh im in love?

Yes you should just let them be. If he really likes the girl then there might be nothing you can do about it. If you're trying to get over him, being friends is not a good idea then, it will only keep the feelings there. I went through the same thing, told a guy i loved him (turned out I really didn't), and then he got a girlfriend. But I kept talking to him and it made it worse. So stop talking to him for a while.

Ohh my gosh im in love?

nope

Ohh my gosh im in love?

youre not in love

Ohh my gosh im in love?

Don't cry and from your style of writing I can tell you're pretty young. You werent in love, you just fell hard. Dont worry someone else will come along and in the meantime just buy some good ice cream and a movie to laugh to :)

Ohh my gosh im in love?

Just stay friendly with him, make it looks like you don't care and start dating someone else.

Ohh my gosh im in love?

I don't think you're IN love. How long have you known this guy? Let me tell you something from experience...break ups REALLY SUCK....but you CAN and WILL get over it....so try to stick by your friends til you get through it.

Ohh my gosh im in love?

I think you want to be with him now just to avoid the embarrassment or pride-loss of telling someone you love them and not get anything back.

Just take the time to cool off for a while.

Ohh my gosh im in love?

Just ignore him. His loss. You are probably a wonderful person and many guys will love you etc etc...

The point is that he doesn't wait and he has no patience for you, so he doesn't respect you enough. He's not worth it.

Ohh my gosh im in love?

Sounds like you've got a little too much energy, kiddo.

Go run around your house ten times. THEN worry about this.

Ohh my gosh im in love?

you have to if you dont you wont be able to move on and find someone else

Ohh my gosh im in love?

i feel really bad, even though that wont do you any good right now. thats one of the worst feelings to know that you were only a day late, and not understanding what could have been. i am even more sorry that there isnt really anything you can to about it. in this instance he is in control of the situation. i can give you at least a little bit of advice. even if you cant let him go, dont let him know that. you cant allow yourself to be a last resort that hes just hanging on to in case it doesnt work out with his current gf. if you have to, just act like youve moved on. you can still talk to him, and be non-flirtatiously friendly, but dont let him control you. if he really cares about you, then the thought of him losing your care will make him rethink about what hes doing. at that point, he would try to get it back. just dont throw yourself back at him to quickly or that same thing will happen again. just keep in mind if you do this right, it can take a while. if your willing to wait.

Ohh my gosh im in love?

youre not in love.. youre in lust.

Ohh my gosh im in love?

if he doen't care then he's an a** hole and he didn't really didn't care in the frist place i know cuz i've been there and you shouldn't go out with him you may love him but he doesn't so just forget him. your heart will learn not to love him but it will take a while