In love with my best friend?

I think i have fallen for my best friend, he used to date my best friend but since they broke up we became really close. We have hooked up on a few drunken occaisons, and at that time i never had any feelings for him. But now he is in love with some other slutty girl (who has a boyfrend) and they are playing around with each other. He could do so much better than this girl. She is so spiteful and has left me abusive myspace messages etc etc and he keeps defending her. When the two of them are together, i neve hear fom him for ages and it hurts. He knows how i feel about him even though its never been dicsussed and it hurts that he cant see that this other girl is using him so much. I love him with allmy heart and i jsut know he is gonig to get hurt by this girl in a way i would never hurt him. Any advice ??

In love with my best friend?

You've described a situation that happens to almost everyone at least once in their life. If he's really your best friend he's bound to know how you feel, so it sounds like he doesn't have the same feelings. I think he likes you, but only as a friend. My advice is just to accept him for what he is - a friend. Don't push it. As far as helping him avoid heartbreak from this other girl, he may need to experience this to bring him closer to you. That may be the spark that lights a fire under his butt to help him realize who really loves him.

In love with my best friend?

I married my best friend

In love with my best friend?

As a best friend, you should quickly tell him what will happen if he continue with this girl. As for your confession, just wait a little more while.

In love with my best friend?

Why do you set yourself up for heartache? You know he's playing around. Why bother with him in that way? Do you think he'll suddenly stay faithful to you? You need to move on.

qman-me too! (the opposite sex one)

In love with my best friend?

I have a similar situation. I love this girl and she hangs out with guys that just want her for sex ect.. I try to tell there just using her but she does listen. I tried for a year and half and more guys then I can remember in the end I realized the she is the only person that can make the choice to stop. So I stopped talking to her cuz it was too hard to see her keep getting used. So my advice is move on find someone else forget about him and hopefully someday he will see the light Also pray to god to keep him safe and give him wisdom. God Bless.

In love with my best friend?

all i can say is 2 wait 4 him. guys aint mature sometimes. seriously.

In love with my best friend?

So you just started to like him because you saw him getting another girlfriend? I think it is annoying when women do that. It has happened to me a few times, at first you like a girl and they aren' t interested in you then they see you with another girl and all of a sudden they change their mind and start liking you just cause they are catty jealous little brats. My advice to you is sort out the kinks in your head before you look for a boyfriend, next girl that tries that with me is going to get a plate of what she deserves.

In love with my best friend?

why dont you just tell him straight in the face on wat is going on

In love with my best friend?

hmm....tough one i suggsest you sit him down accumulate some evidence against this girl and show him the facts if he's inlove with this "sleezy girl" then i doubt he'll listen if you just say it because in his mind this is just a way for yo to get him all to yourself so show him some facts im sure he'll listen by then.....

In love with my best friend?

The problem is not that you love your bf, the problem is not your problem....is his!-----

Does he know her well enough?..If he does he楹搒 aware,

finally he had taken that decision, you can guess he will handle the results of it. Nothing to do with you.. Just be a good friend!.