My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and most of the time everything is great. We spend just about every day together and enjoy being with each other as we are truly best friends. We communicate well and also rely on each other in difficult situations. I know that I want to be with him forever but some of his actions make me wonder how he feels.
I am constantly having doubts as to whether or not he truly loves me. He is 32 and I am 26 and he still doesn't know if he wants to marry me. He tells me that he thinks about it and thinks about our future but doesn't know for sure. I also think that he likes attention from other girls and likes flirting with other girls...he has a myspace account that shows his profile as being single and accepts friend requests from random girls. He also doesn't have any pictures of me around his house, at his office, or on his myspace which makes me think that he is hiding our relationship.
Does my boyfriend love me?
Confront him
Does my boyfriend love me?
Shoot I would let him know because myspace is a killer of realtionships becaus eme and my firends wanted to see is guys who actually say they have girlfriends would still talk to us and they would so I would really have a talk with him about it
Does my boyfriend love me?
how should we know. we aren't him.
you need to ask him why he is like this. that is not normal. i mean come on.
Does my boyfriend love me?
sounds like its ultimatum time.....confront him
although to the person above me, its perfectly normal what are you talking about.
thats not to say that its correct...just normal
Does my boyfriend love me?
Talk to him about it, tell him your feelings. Maybe he is a little confused.
Does my boyfriend love me?
Stop waiting around for this guy. You aren't getting any younger. Go find someone that is interested in you and your life.
Does my boyfriend love me?
Sit down and have the talk but be prepared to move on.
Nothing you can do if he won't commit. Sometime we just have to walk away.
Does my boyfriend love me?
I read a book called "Hes just not that into you".
You should read it because it covers alot of topics you question.
Now, a wise lady once told me "Honey, it doesnt take a man YEARS to know that your the one, and that he wants to marry you"
Plain and simple, he OBVIOUSLY isnt returning some of the feelings you have for him.
YOU most likely have his pics on your myspace. YOU most likely have his pics in your house. You most likely dont tell people your SINGLE..
What else do you need honey?
Im not saying he doesnt love you. Im sure he does. But I think he may not feel that you are the one for him. The total package. I think you may just be buying up time until he has the courage to tell you this verbally.
His actions say alot. People who are in secure relationships (ESPECIALLY FOR 3 YEARS) dont need to ask this question.
good luck
Does my boyfriend love me?
Sounds like you are their for his needs ,when he needs it.Three years is a long time together for him not to have pictures of you all around, If your in love you want everybody to know!!Cut your losses now and find a man that will love you back.It will be great!
Does my boyfriend love me?
" his profile as being single" Leave him NOW! It's been three years and he's not sure if you're the one? Then he's draggin this out until he finds something better! But you deserve better NOW!!
Please read the book "He's Just Not That Into You" then read it again.. Then one more time, like keeping it on your nightstand.. Then give it to all your girlfriends!!! This guy is a narcissist which is why he needs to have you around... Not a picture in the house of the two of you after three years? Dang.. so if he's cheating on you the other girl would never know about you! That's gotta hurt. I'm so sorry you're goin through this but I promise there are other men out there who would be honored to dat you and one that will be marring you if that's what you want. But first you need to be clear in your own mind that you deserve more than crumbs. And this guy you're dating now is only giving you crumbs.
Don't settle, you do deserve better and I promise he's out there but can't find you cos you're with mr dingaling.... so let him go.. cry a little.. do the laundry.. make a promise you'll never date a man who isn't proud to call you his girlfriend around everyone and get on with your fabulous life!!!
Does my boyfriend love me?
Ask him he is the only one that can answer you
you are asking a bunch of strangers if he like
no matter what you test us we still could not tell, so act like a classy dame and ask him if he does, and if marriage is what you want and he does not want to than move on
GOOD LUCK
Does my boyfriend love me?
If it were me, I would make up a fake myspace account and message him. Ask him if he is single or in a relationship? And see if he flirts with me on myspace. You can tell alot about a person by what they put on myspace or say to strangers on the internet. BUT, that might make things worse for your relationship if he finds out. And it is a bit dishonest. I am just saying that is what I would do, all is fair in love and war.
Does my boyfriend love me?
Lucy, here's the thing ...
If he has been with you for 3 years and hasn't asked you to marry him, then chances are he doesn't want to marry you.
Here are my questions to you Lucy ...
Are you enjoying your relationship with your boyfriend? If it's great most of the time, why not enjoy it the way it is? Why change or possibly ruin what you have now? Why can't you just enjoy what you already have?
You say you want to be with him forever ... You don't have to be married to stay with him forever. Why do you have to be 'married' to stay with him forever?
If your relationship is truly based on love, then being married won't make him love you any more than he does now.
Lucy, quite frankly, in today's society there isn't any benefit to a man to be married.
My suggestion ... enjoy your relationship the way it is now or risk losing it forever. Your choice.
Does my boyfriend love me?
that doesn't sound like love to me .it seems like he's embarrassed of you then you said that he appears as single hes making himself available to other girls on my space.most guys he's age already have a family or are married what is he waiting for wait till hes 90 to find someone to settle down with. i think your wasting your time with him move on he clearly just wants to have you on the side.
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