Do you think it is disrespectful for your boyfriend to put girls in front on u on his top friends li

ok, so we have been dating now since new years day. I love him very much, and he says he loves me alot too. But on his myspace page he puts a bunch of girls that are "just his friends" in front of me. now i think this is very disrespectful to me, and making me out to look like a fool. like im getting played. He thinks its no big deal. also he took me off his top friend because he said alot of people emailed him asking "who is that white girl as your top friend?" (by the way, hes black and im white) anyways, he said he got tired of ppl asking him so he moved me ALL the way to the bottom. now that hurt alone, like he was embarrassed of me or something. then he puts all these girls in front of me like they are more important, also not embarrassing to him i guess. i've explained to him numerous times how this hurts my feelings, and makes me think he doesn't truely love me if he cares what other ppl think. he says its just myspace and its not real. ok, i ran out of room, so respond please!!

Do you think it is disrespectful for your boyfriend to put girls in front on u on his top friends list?

What you have described is an obvious warning sign. If your boyfriend isn't man enough to deal with the race issue on myspace, how can you possibly expect him to deal with it in the real world? If you stay in this relationship, you are in for a world of disappointment. I'm sure that is not what you want to hear, but unless your boyfriend suddenly grows a pair of nuggets...well, you know the rest. Trust your instincts.

Do you think it is disrespectful for your boyfriend to put girls in front on u on his top friends list?

no

he should know for him bros before hoes and for girls chick before ***** lol

Do you think it is disrespectful for your boyfriend to put girls in front on u on his top friends list?

kind of childish

Do you think it is disrespectful for your boyfriend to put girls in front on u on his top friends list?

That is supremely disrespectful and it's like a way of saying that he doesn't respect you enough to defend you when his friends do not approve of you. This is also saying that he values his friends opinions more then he values your happiness; if he'd do that just because you're a different race and his friends may bother him about that fact, imagine if something life-changing happens to you. Will he stand by you? Will he stand up for you and love/like you unconditionally, unbiased of other's opinions? If the answer is no, and he's shallow enough to value his friends assumptions of a "white girl" enough to actually do that to you, then I'd say that you should move on. Obviously he takes you for granted and he's not a true friend or a good boyfriend, and he doesn't deserve the priviledge of dating you. Also, putting multiple girls in his top 8 and saying that his friends were bothering him about you, can be an indication of other girlfriends who asked why they weren't in his Top 8; he could be cheating on you.

Do you think it is disrespectful for your boyfriend to put girls in front on u on his top friends list?

hey i'd be hurt as well =) who wouldn't? cause it's as if he's embarrassed of you and i'd really hate it when my bf puts other girls in front of me. it's like they are more impt. but one thing we've gotta understand here. he removed yours from the top list because of what his friends said. with guys, friends are quite everything. peer pressure on them is very great. they really don't like getting teased and hounded by their friends all the time about such stuff. so they would do stuff that may seem appropriate to them, but not to you. try understanding their peer pressure thing and not give him so much stick for it. cos in reality, you guys are dating =) whatever goes on in myspace isnt important.