Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

My boyfriend%26amp;I have been together for about 9months.

We had a rocky start he was flirting w/other girls%26amp;saying things he shouldnt.We broke up for a month%26amp;got back together%26amp;he told me he has changed%26amp;he means it. He hasn't showed me anything to not trust him or to believe he went back to the way he was. But he has been talking to alot of other girls on myspace%26amp;he has been txting other girls%26amp;he has talked to girls on the phone. He says they are just friends%26amp;everything. But when we 1st got back together he was always talking to me%26amp;alway called%26amp;he use to say all that really cute things girls love to hear%26amp; always called me back...but now he never does any of that. We started to see eachother everyday for 2 1/2 weeks%26amp;then we got into a fight%26amp;about broke up. But we decided to stay together but ever since then he has kinda of been acting different but he says he is fine%26amp;that he is happy with me. But it seems like he isn't and that he never wants to talk to me at all anymore. Am I just paranoid?

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

Why do you feel you need to ask this on here, I mean, taking advice from perfect strangers who do not know you, or your boyfriend, seems like a silly thing to do.

Follow your own heart, listen to what it tells you and make up your min on your own :)

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

Sounds like every relationship ever.

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

If you have to ask.......

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

Break it off and move on.

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

Move on- please.

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

NO I WOULD NOT TRUST THIS GUY OK. GOOD LUCK TO YOU.

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

this sucks but you cant really get an answer from us about it... you only gave us your side but he has the other half.. you have to talk to him about it

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

honestly... i am a guy...and not to go aghainst my fellow man....he probably hasnt cheated yet...but its probably likely.sounds like your young so move on if hes not "the one", I know its hard and blah blah blah, but if hes not going to be Your "one" then why waste the time...you could easily find someone more worth your while.........but thats just my perspective

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

Ditch the douche. That's my policy. If he can't stay loyal then its his problem and not yours. Don't stay hurt. Strike back love!

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

Well, I have to say it does sound a bit fishy. It sounds like he is not ready to be a one-woman-man. Perhaps, if he loves you, and you love him too, you should let him go. He may just need time to discover himself. If it's meant to be, it wil be.

Goodluck!

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

Nope, you are not paranoid. Break up. He doesnt deserve you. Obviously deep down you know he is doing something, or else you wouldnt have been asking this question. Make the right choice, there are so many other guys out there. :]

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

I don't think you're paranoid. Sounds to me like he is one of those guys that like to do all the sweet stuff at first, but if things get rocky or whatever, then he either gets bored or insecure.

My honest opinion is the two of you just don't belong together.

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

Does he make alot of money? Is he destined to be very successful like law school or medical school? I ask because when he has got absolutely everything going for him my advice is different if he is like destined for the welfare office or something. In the first case scenario I believe in your relationship through repetition the wandering eyes you will hammer out of him in a few years as he goes on to success and keeps you at his side. In the second case scenario it would seem to me moving on would be a better option. But I am not Dr. Ruth (a famous relationship expert in the 1980's, before many users were even born) or even Dr. Phil. They could give you much better advice than me but they would probably charge you or something.

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

Im having the same problem. Kinda. But I think that it is just part of relationship. You know nobody really stay the same like they were when he asked you out. Guys tend to be sweet, sensitive and showing more affection during the first couple of months or year in the relationship. And I have found out that just because they dont do the things they used to do before doesnt mean they lose interest or they doesnt care anymore. Maybe you guys have already talked about everything and theres nothing really to talk about unless something new happened. Or you just have to spice the conversation like bring up a good topic to talk about. Sometimes it doesnt automatically mean that they have change, maybe they know that they already have you and they're not worried about getting at you anymore. Just talk to him about it. I kinda be thinking that stuff too cus me and my boyfriend dont really talk as much as we used to either but he still very sweet =]

so just look at the nice things that he do not that bad one.

Good luck!

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

You are not paranoid. Sometimes in relationships things calm down. The door-opening, calling, touchy-feely part ends eventually. However, if he is still keeping touch with several girls and not including guys in his circle, he may be looking to stray. Kind of like he is stocking the "potential pool" with fish. Right now you are familiar and he doesn't want to let that go just yet. I suggest moving on. You never know, he may see the error of his ways and want to treat you with the love and respect you deserved in the first place. It will then be up to you if you want him back at all.

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

it really sound like you both need to talk to each other about

what you really want in this relationship. if you dont trust him

then you dont have much of any thing.

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

this may seem wrong, but this is what I have been doing recently. To find out what he has been doing on the computer, look under history. Then check under your cookies- Tools- Internet Options- Settings under Temporary Internet Files- view files. You will be able to see all the cookies/webpages that have been viewed recently. you can check sites. I had to do this recently when I found out my boyfriend was watching porn. This made me feel inadequate and made me have very low self esteem.

I confronted him once about watching porn after I found tons of sites viewed under history. Then he got smart one day and deleted history after I got home from work. Well, I'm smarter than him, so I checked cookies and saw all the porn sites viewed that day.

Sometimes you have to spy and investigate to find out stuff hidden from you.

You're not paranoid... you're a woman. And women feel insecure sometime.

Best of wishes.

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

speaking from esperience, i have went thru the same thing, so i decided not to spend everyday with him. I gave him some space and time to miss me. i dont like the fact that he is having all these female friends thou. i have that problem now and we have been living together for 2 years, but my thing is that if you want to talk to your female friends, dont do it around me or in our home. do it on your own time, respect me. I know that he has female friends and basically there is nothing you can do about it, but you need to put your foot down and tell him that you feel disrespected if he is talking to them around you and thatyou dont like it and is not going to put up with it. If he gets affended by that then he is a lieing cheating man. he wants to have his cake and eat it too. even thou you might love him, NEVER put a man before yourself and never give them all your time. leave something to come back for. if he is the type of man that likes to say sweet things to his girl, what would be the reason that he just stopped all of a sudden. Sit down and talk to him and ask him why. if he cant give you a answer to soot you, then there is somebody else he is giving his attention too.

Is he happy with me or do you think he may be cheating?

MOVE ON and tell him to kick rocks.. You don't need anyone like that. How can he be your boyfriend and not talk to you?