Are people just loved and hated at the same time? LoL.?

I am curious why this always happens to me.

When I find a single girl or just many girls my age, around 19-22, I'm 19, they always seem to ignore me, even when I'm nice to them or just talk to them. Many ignore me completely on MySpace.

Yet, girls who have a boyfriend, love me it seems, they find me adorable and a great guy.

Yet, other girls will just flat out ignore me or act like I'm a nobody.

Am I probably being judged for my looks or something? Why am I like a nobody to some but everything to others?

Does this just happen to everyone?

I got girls looking at me all the time and smiling, yet when I try to talk to girls, it's like, "WTF are you?"

Am I possibly turning them off somehow?

I just don't get why, I'm loved by girls with boyfriends, yet it's like I'm a no one with single girls.

I don't know if I'm going for the wrong girls or something.

I don't get why so many girls, smile at me, look at me, seem to flirt, yet I say something, boom bye. LoL.

Are people just loved and hated at the same time? LoL.?

ok....maybe the girls with boyfriends are happy , content and stable....and the single ones you are going for have alot of problems which show in their behaviour

Try and find a girl who is content with herself and likes you for you.....but that means you being content in yourself and liking you for you first!!!

Its a good sign that the ones with boyfriends feel comfortable with you.....hopefully that means you are boyfriend material...but maybe going for the wrong type of girl????

Are people just loved and hated at the same time? LoL.?

Yes...lol...."men, can't live with them, can't live without them"....it's frustrating when guys send out mixed messages!

I guess not many college guys hv gfs because they focus a lot more in their studies and working.

And go for a girl who you really really like because of their personality and not try to please everyone you know/see with an XX chromosome.

Probably why you're loved is because you do nice things and hated because you do for every female you know and that confuses them as to whether you're being sleazy in acting like that with all the girls.

Are people just loved and hated at the same time? LoL.?

because girls want you to ignore them try for an aussie girl if your not having a lot of luck but good luck!

Are people just loved and hated at the same time? LoL.?

yip you guessed right! you going for the wrong girls in the wrong places, go to a church youth group or wedding, or who go to college or through trusted friends. maybe even ask the girls with bf's if they know any sweet girl who is single

Are people just loved and hated at the same time? LoL.?

I feel u bro, lawl, im not even a guy...anyway i can understand why girls seem to ignore/hate/love/like u. Like u said, most girls just ignore u and hate u but did u ever consider its becuase they just dont know u? had a bad experience or maybe they simply are too arogant to direct their attention to someone they think isnt worth it. And then the girls who seem to lov ur personality, like u said hav bfs, i guess that they know what its like to get a good bf and they know that u may hav those qualities where the girls who are single think that u arent even there. most likely they never had any experience and cant judge a guy, i hav no freakin idea about that but all the best to ya pal..

Are people just loved and hated at the same time? LoL.?

it's natural for a girl to ignore you when you give them so much attention, or go nuts over them.. just play it cool! the'll think that you're desperate. most girls with boyfriend who likes you, might just be finding you a greater guy than their present boyfriends... guys who drool over girls are really turn-off! and it doesnt mean that if you're a college guy, you're not attractive... it maybe because of your personality... try to develop some sense of humor when you're in front of them.

good luck!:)