Girls don't like me?

I was in a 4 year relationship she mistreated me very bad hit me, threw items at me, always/most of the time put me down the first 2 years were wonderful I always gave her so much love..I bought her things learned how to coo and do perfect laundry just so I could take care of her, I treated her like a queen, so back in 2006 she stole money out of my account and stole some of my things and took off, I have been single and lonely ever since, I go on myspace and try to meet some people none of them write me back, they don't give me a chance and when I do they think I am a faker and quit talking to me, I feel I will be along forever, I want a girl that I can love and Hug and cuttel with.. someone I can give all my love and affection to and that will love me back the same way. I just can't understand why girls don't like me I am fun, and I love to make people laugh and I agree to anything and I listen to every word..who am I kidding, I will end up alone in the end...someone please help me?

Girls don't like me?

You sound like a great guy, it sounds like she took advantage of you. And you let her. Even though all you want to do is love someone, you have respect yourself in order for them to respect and love you back. It's not right for a woman to hit a man anymore than it is for a man to hit a woman. It's not right to verbally abuse someone anymore than it is to physically abuse them.

Maybe you're TOO easy going, a 'push over', too soft? You don't like conflict so you give in? If that's true, try being more assertive than passive. Not violent or hurtful, but don't let any woman walk all over you either. Try not to seem like you NEED her more than she needs you.

Stay sweet, stay yourself, someone will love you for you, you just need to find them, and unfortunately Myspace isn't the best place to do so. There's a lot of weariness on there. Smart girls don't trust guys who contact them on Myspace for dating. Stupid girls get taken advantage of.

If you're serious about it and can't seem to find someone in your everyday life, then maybe you could try a dating site.

Another thing is that maybe you shouldn't try too hard. Don't go too fast when talking to a girl, don't start talking about how you just want to "hug and cuddle", just make it clear that you're looking for a serious relationship and you're not just looking for casual sex. I think that you may scare some girls away if you talk about those things too soon. Just like girls can scare men away by talking about babies and marriage too soon.

So, be yourself but don't seem too needy for love, too desperate for closeness. Take it slow, don't let yourself get taken advantage of, and try to get off Myspace for dating.

Good Luck! :)

Girls don't like me?

Get yourself out there and let the world know you're available! Maybe the girl you're crushing on is crushing on you too, but thinks you're taken. Drop hints that you like her or just bluntly say so. Get involved in activities. Girls like guys that are doing things - especially sports. And on the plus side, if you join a school team, more girls will notice you so you have more options.

Be bold. Girls always like confidence, so tell her what you have to say. There is always a time for subtleties later.

Humor is always a great way to win over girls. By doing this you make that special someone feel more comfortable around you. Try to avoid dirty jokes and such (ie, jokes that your guy friends would find funny), and mostly go on wit and quips.

Be romantic and sweet to her.

Be yourself. Girls like boys who are themselves. And make sure you know the girl! While girls appreciate an honest boy, if who "you" are is not what the girl is into, you're not going to get very far...If she won't like you for who you truly are, she's not worth it.

Dig up any information you can find out about her. Search for her hobbies, interests, music she listens to, friends she likes, etc. Just understand her general style and adapt to it. The first thing a girl looks at is a guy's style.

Talk to her about stuff she is interested in - such as music she likes. Most importantly, try to get her to talk about herself, then build on that. People are naturally more comfortable talking about themselves anyway. Think of it as an opportunity to find out more about this girl so you can determine if you want to pursue her further. Also, if you are stuck on some conversation starters, remember the two starters that always seems to work: food and weather. Be funny and crack a joke every now and then or tell a girl an embarrassing story, but don't gossip! Most girls hate guys who gossip, but love guys who are funny.

Ask her to hang out. If you get to know each other better you may end up going out or you may end up realizing she wasn't the girl for you anyway.

Always be polite. Take into consideration the girl's feelings.

Be a gentleman. Open the door for her, pull out her chair before she sits down, don't interrupt, etc. Those things show a poised, graceful man, and girls like that. You can't act like you do around your male friends.

Compliment her. Just make sure that you are sincere, don't just make something up- if you look for something that really makes you like her, she'll know that you're interested in getting to know her better. Also, know the right ways to compliment. Some girls like it if you say "DAAAAMMMNNN!!" when they walk into the room, but some would be really offended. To be safe, be nice, cute, and above all, not creepy. Leering is a definite turn-off.

Don't be too clingy. Give her space.Tell her that you love her

Tips [edit]Make a point of remembering her birthday and other important things.

Connect to her using body language. Let her catch you looking at her from the corner of your eye. Show her your interested, but don't creep her out.

Show you have confidence; girls hate guys with low self-confidence. But in some cases, girls like shy guys because they might find it "cute."

Always stay clean; you can easily drive away a girl if you have bad breath or dirty clothes.

Work on building a friendship with her friends (remember that friends play a big role in who to go out with). So get on the friends' good side so they will give the girl their approval. Or, if you want to be daring, you can even tell the girl's friends that you like her, and ask them not to tell her (if they tell her, don't be alarmed閳ユ敄hey could be saying that because said girl might like you, which is good for you).

Warnings [edit]If you go in for a kiss at the end of your date and she says that she is uncomfortable or that you are going too fast, then slow down. If you really like her you will respect her opinion.

Try not to be too possessive, because most people still like their own personal space.

Don't rush into anything. Get to know each other before starting a relationship. If another man is trying to steal her away, be protective of her -- some girls like to be defended by the guy they like.

Don't be brutally honest. If a girl asks you if she's fat, never say yes - even if she is. Girls like you to boost up their self-esteem!

She may end up not liking you even if you do all these things. Oh well! There are other fish in the sea!

Don't stalk her. Keep your distance or else you'll just creep her out. You have to be at least a little mysterious.

Don't be a jerk because girls will be repelled by that.

Don't flirt with other girls! That's just asking for her to not like you.

Try not to IM her more than once a day to avoid looking like a clinger.

Girls don't like me?

you gave her too much power. she took that power and threw it in your face. never give a woman too much power or they will lose respect for you and step all over you. be an assertive man and women will crawl on their hands and knees for you. women love dominant males and sometimes guys who dont spoil them all the time, even though they want that but deep down and in their subconscious female mind, they wont respect a man who gives all his cards away.

Girls don't like me?

wow, your first relationship is tainted.

I guess all i can tell you is good luck with your love life

Girls don't like me?

You've only been single for a year that's not that long after getting out of a 4 year relationship. It's easiest to find someone when you're not looking for them. Be patient. You'll find someone, maybe just not right away

Girls don't like me?

aww i feel the same no guys like me. but you seem like a very genuine guy and trust me you will find a perfect girl oneday , maybe sooner than you think

Girls don't like me?

1. Meet someone OFFLINE

2. Girl's don't like little babies who

- get beat up by girls

- agree to anything

- whine about being alone

- think that you, yourself is perfect

3. MOST IMPORTANTLY: DON'T SEARCH/FIND A GIRL, LET THEM COME TO YOU NATURALLY.

Girls don't like me?

1st of all dont give a girl your everything because she will always take advantage of u what the hell was she doing with your account number ans 2nd of all dont look for females on the computer did u ever hear that u meet good people when ever u r not looking for them keep that in mind just do YOUR thing and someone will come along

Girls don't like me?

Grow a spine.

You were used... learn your lesson, lick the wounds and pick yourself up and get out of the house. Screw myspace etc... get out where the singles hang out and have fun, buy a motorcyle, learn to skydive, snorkle, travel, every time you brake up with a girl go do something new and different, learn to fly a plane or at least go for an intro flight, swim, kyak, whitewater raft.....

shut the boob toob off and get outside.... then you will meet some ladies etc... or not but at least you opened your horizons a bit!

Girls don't like me?

Girls are like flies..

run after them, they will fly away

fly away from them, they will follow u.

To get into reality follow what "maken trax" wrote

(dont worry u will find one, try, it may take time, but this time do not show her that she is the only important thing in you life.

Just show her that you really love and care her but do not be like a monkey around her, loosing your own personality)

Too much of everything is bad, even love