My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

We have been together for 5 months and he has been out of a divorce for just over a year. I am not sure if he is still in the "single loving life" phase, but I have a 4 year old daughter and I don't want to be in and out of relationships causing her heartach as well. He chats with really cute girls, never met any of them and tells me that it is out of bordom and it is an ego booster for him. He just asked me to move in with him, but I am not sure if I can handle the online competition. He tells all the girls that he is single. When I bring it up to him,he gets really definsive and a fight usually breaks out. He refuses to drop the chatting though. I really care about him and think he feels the same. What should I do?

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

Yes, you should be worried about this. I can practically guarantee that he's looking and possibly getting a little cybersex.

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

Well not that much worried but ask him politely why he is doin like this whether he wud not like to continue relation with u or wat?? Report It

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

yeah

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

I would want you to keep in mind that this is the internet,and people lie,besides how would you know they are cute if you never met them? At the same time,if he is saying he is single,then you should be worried.

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

if he loved you he wouldnt deny u .....

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

Kick him to the curb. If he's telling them he is single, he doesn't give a s**t about you. Not trying to be mean, but come on girl think about it. You need a real man for yourself and your little girl.

Take it from someone who's biological father never even layed eyes on her. Growning up without a male figure is very difficult, but growning up with a mother who has more boyfriends than you can keep up with is horrible.

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

Worried? It is clear that he considers himself still single. Don't move in, it will lead to nothing but heartbreak for both you and your daughter. You are being treated like trash. I would dump him altogther, good luck!

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

His telling them he's single is a red flag. If he honestly wants to be with you, he needs more time to get used to the idea of being with you. Divorce is a stressor, and taking on a new partner with kid in tow is a huge undertaking.

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

sounds like a delima easy as saying me ot them.five months is too short anyway think about it.If your with someone why say your single on line no point in that.Leave him waste its a of your time you should of known that from the start in the first place.If he cares about you he would of dropped them long time ago but still hasn't be the smart one here now! good luck

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

If your boyfriend is really serious about your relationship then he should respect your request that he stop chatting with other girls. Makes me wonder about him when you said he tells all those girls that he is single. From experience I've noticed that when you bring up something that your uncomfortable with and he automatically gets mad and wants to argue about it, it's usually because he knows he's doing something wrong and you have caught him at it. I don't think you should rush into moving in together until you can come to an agreement about the online chatting. You may set yourself up for heartbreak as I don't believe he is ready to settle back down. Keep a close eye on that man of yours. Good Luck

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

Chatting on line may have been his thing while he was with his wife also. If there isn't any respect for you while he's doing it, then the relationship shouldn't even be there.

Tell him your going to start chatting on line also, then start chatting to a bunch of cute guys, dont meet them, and then tell him you do it because your bored, and it helps you get the affection that you dont have with him.. Then maybe he will see how you feel. If he doesn't see it then it's time to cut loose.

I know its wrong to go "eye for an eye" wise, but if you guys argue about it, then I would go the route I told you. He has to see it some way to make him understand how you feel.

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

Boy this situation sounds just like the one i just got done dealing with with someone. First, if he is on MYSPACE or YAHOO for an ego boost...the man has some serious issues with himself if he needs to look to others for self reassurance. Second, he knows it is bothering you and yet..does not seem to care..if he had any respect for you or had any interest in making the relationship work...his butt should not be on the internet...period. Sorry, but it sounds like he is just not that into the relationship. He sounds as if he is only into himself and does not care about your feelings. My advice...dump him and move on. He is not worth all the heart ache and aggrivation...he is a snake in the grass. Give him an ultimatum...either he gets off the internet...or you are GONE. Its just that simple. Do not settle for anything less. U can do a whole lot better. And do not move in w him until he is ready to be in a REAL RELATIONSHIP..without the ego boost.

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

since talking doesn't work. then i think well, you should break up with him. *just a friendly advice. considering that he can't own up to your relationship and also that he tells other people that he's single -- that just ain't right.

BUT

since you care for him and you think he does too. i think well, you should not move in with him yet. *but you would still be in the relationship -- be patient with him. give him hints that you're feeling jealous about the chat thing; maybe try giving him the ego booster he is searching for when he chats. i think moving in with him would not be appropriate -- not right now, cause the problem hasn't been fixed. also, considering that you have a 4 year old daughter - and you and the guy fight whenever you try to be honest about the chat thing -- i don't think it would be too good for her. wait for the problem to be solved and then move in with him -- if that is what you really want. ;]

well, whatever you would decide, good luck. ;]

My Boyfriend chats with a lot of girls on Myspace and Yahoo, should I be worried?

It's not his flirting on myspace that's bothering you...it's that you don't feel special to him. I'm willing to bet he hasn't gone out of his way yet to make you feel better than any other girl he's been with. Bottom line, he's not keeping you happy.

The next time you talk with him, don't bring up the myspace. That's just an excuse to argue. Tell him what's really going on. You feel neglected by him and want to get closer. Address the EMOTIONAL issue you're facing, not what is currently manifesting itself as anything.

He's defending himself by saying it's an ego booster and it's just out of boredom because he feels threatened when you bring it up. You get into arguments because you're basically telling him what to do/not to do. You're rejecting a harmless act that he wants to pursue and he'll defend it teeth and bone.

I'm not saying he's right or wrong for flirting with women online. However, he IS WRONG for not seeing that your emotional needs aren't being met.

Tell him what you're feeling, and make sure to take his feelings into consideration as well. There will be no online competition when you have that special connection with him that he won't have with any other girl. The heart of the issue is neglect and attention. You deserve all of him. He needs to know this WAY BEFORE you decide to move in with him.

Good luck.