Can i fall in love with a girl i've never met? And do Girls just settle for their one they are

Ok so there is this girl.....she lives like over 500 miles away....well i met her online..myspace...we talked on there..then msn...and the phone...we can talk for literally like 6 or 7 hours at a time..and never get bored..i've been talking to her for like a year plus.... we think like exactly alike no lie...We seem perfect for each other....but she has a boyfriend that she has been with for almost 3 years now......and i think she is just setteling for him...b/c i kinda know who he is...and they dont really even match...and i prolly talk to her way more then he does...and i feel like an *** hole for even considering me trying to break them up..but if there is such thing as soul mates...we match...i know we do...im not interested in any other girls around here where i live...she is really the only one i wanna be with...

is it possible for me to be in love with her?

and do girls sometimes just settle for guys...cause they dont wanna leave their comfort zone or whatever?

and plus 500 miles aint nothing but a 2 hour plane ride tops.....

Can i fall in love with a girl i've never met? And do Girls just settle for their one they are with?

Not every situation ends up the same but I have been involved in something like this and I know a few people who have been where you are and every single one of them ended up that the girl was lying. I talked to a girl for a year and she sent me letters, pictures, and even a mens ring that she swore was her thumb ring. When she was finally coming to see me she never showed up. I had a friend who did the same thing and thought he was in love but she was married and she just used him for the attention.

You are talking to her on the phone and only but theres a really good chance she is not the person you think she is. Even if she has sent you pictures you dont know if its really her or they could be really good pictures taken when she was younger (before she gained those last 30 pounds). And don't think for a second that "looks aren't important" Because they are.. People will lie on the internet.

My advice is be really careful with her. She could be totally lying or leading you on. Why would she stay with someone for 3 years if she is unhappy? Don't get too wrapped up in someone you haven't met.. you are setting yourself up for disaster.