Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

I know I could stand to lose a few pounds, but crap. Big girls need love too.

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Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

@ phonehomesock - Are you serious? Lol, get a clue. She's asking for opinions to help her. If you have something negative to say, why even bother posting? Seriously.

But other than that, you're eyes are super pretty. :] And anyone will like you if you have a nice personality. Point is, if a guy won't go out with you/like you because you're overweight... then he's not worth it.

Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

I am not a mean person, thank you very much.

How the hell is anyone on the internet supposed to know why people don't love you... UMM PROBABLY BECAUSE YOU LACK SELF-CONFIDENCE. Please tell me how it's not pathetic to fish for compliments on the internet. Report It

Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

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Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

If that is you in the picture, you are exquisite! You just need to find a smart man!

Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

ok.....you like Evanescence.......which is bad......

here's some awesome music......

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Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

just lose weight. you would be a super hot chick. like the baby blue tattoo.

Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

Don't feel down about yourself - it sometimes takes a while to find the right person. Just relax and it'll happen someday. You look great, and someday someone will love you for everything you are. Remember though, that for someone to love you, you must first love yourself.

Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

I'm taken. But if I weren't... well... I don't know anything about you other than you have a pretty face. Assuming everything else is average and in proportion you seem fine to me.

Find someone the way I did: hang out places where people share an interest in something you're interested in. You'll meet lots of people with whom you have at least that in common. Just let things take their natural course from there.

Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

Unfortunately, being depressed can be a real turn-off for guys. If you have been seriously abused as a child, then please consider counseling so that any issues don't become permanent. Guys are attracted to happy girls.

Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

Your question in itself suggest you obviously dont like yourself. Stop and listen. YOU are a child of God. Why are you judging yourself? God doesnt make crap. You are beautiful! Listen to what the word of God says about you. He is not a liar. It is true, there are some people who are so insecure that they choose to hurt others or lash out. But stand your ground. ALL PEOPLE have struggles and attacks by others. So my friend, start loving yourself, quit beating up on yourself. Your way more lovely than you think.

Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

I hate when people put questions like this. You're obviously just fishing for compliments and for people to tell you you're not ugly.

Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

It sounds like you are viewing the world through a skewered lense. Why would you assume that, in order to be loved, you have to be "good enough"? What does that mean anyway? Do you think people go through a mental checklist in their head of how "good" the other person is, and if the other person qualifies, then they "decide" to love the person?

I think it may be worth it for you to take a good long think on why exactly people fall in love, and what they fall in love with.

Love is an abstract, unrestricted concept. There's no set "criteria" for what you have to do in order to get it. It's created in our minds and (arguably) our hearts. So guess what you can do in order to be loved? That's right; create it yourself. There's no rule that says others HAVE to give it to you, and there's no set procedure for GETTING it. But you have an infinite ability to CREATE it. So get to it.

Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

You have no confidence in yourself. Build that and try online dating. Here's a review of some dating sites:

http://www.relationship-affairs.com/dati...

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Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

Big girl - I sympathize and empathize with you. You are good enough and someone will love you.

My sister-in-law is also very overweight - but she is married to my brother (normal weight) and they are very happy together. However, I think she had one thing that you don't have. She has tremendous self-confidence.

I think you have to build your self-confidence, self-esteem, self-love. I know it's not easy - I also have this problem. I'm not sure what to tell you, but try to be good and kind to yourself. Do things to make yourself happy - enjoy your life. Maybe when you are busy doing things that you enjoy and make you happy, the right man will be there along side of you - seeing the real, beautiful you.

Good luck!

Why am I not good enough for anyone to love me? Am I ugly or what?

You must kiss 100 frogs ...to find and value the princ....just wait.... yor moment will come...pretty soon :)

good luck.